Index and Timeline

I'm not the most organised thinker to say the least, and as I said in my first post - I started this blog in the middle of my experiences.
It would have been nice to start at the beginning and work through things as they happened, shared thoughts as they occurred chronologically - but I didn’t know I was going to feel the need to share this for about...ooh lets say about 12 journals - or about 6 months of non contact - I know that’s A LOT! of journals
and most of them are filled with all sorts of things which are irrelevant to what I'm writing here (shopping list anyone?) But it is my intention to gradually work through them, and pick out the milestone moments in going non contact with my Family of origin. Simply because - as I said in one of my posts already -
there is no map to this.
I didn’t know what to expect - and if you are reading this then you may be in the same position, or maybe your much further along your journey and want to share what’s coming?

But I thought I'd make this page and see if I can keep some kind of index here of the order things actually happened in - then you can see where and when I was being ranty, when I had my light bulb moments and where I was feeling at my most sorry for myself. Sometimes I do post about now - sometimes about things that happened, or occurred to me, a little while ago.

I'll try to keep it up to date and link it to the relevant posts - but I'm not loving this blog format and am finding some of the ways it works a bit challenging, so bear with me if I fail to be a superhero about all this.



The Dim And Distant Past

Childhood and pre awareness stuff



The Build Up

When I knew it was all wrong but didn’t know what to do with that knowledge



Tipping Points and Making Decisions.

Taking on the fight for me



Non Contact and the Immediate Aftermath

The mad scrabble to arm myself in case they came back fighting, and the period of emotional fallout after cutting contact.


The First Months 

Shifting perspectives and seeing things in new ways


 The First Year

Creating a New Normal 

Onwards and Upwards

Getting stuff to stick and not just be theories 


  Making THIS Work

A little Hindsight & Happiness


 Where asking "Why?" stopped,  and "Moving On" Started in Earnest

Looking for Happy